The 10 Best Self Help Books You Have to Read Before You Die

Self Help Books

“The wise man reads both books and life itself.” ~ Lin Yutang

I often get asked which self help books I’d recommend to read. I think everybody has a book or two that had a profound influence on his/her way of life. Some books were a great help on the path of personal growth and some were even life-changing. I personally read hundreds of self help books in the past and this is my list of 10 books I would recommend to everybody without a second thought. So here is my personal Top 10 list of the best self help books in reverse order…

The Top 10 Self Help Books:

#10 The 4 Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss

A really new kind of thinking about where you invest your time and what is the most effective way to do it. Even if you don’t manage to only work for 4 hours a week (who really wants that anyway?), the ideas from Tim Ferris could make it possible. → Get The 4 Hour Workweek on Amazon

#9 Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen

One of the best productivity books. It is a complete system for using your time most efficiently and especially there where it matters most for you. → Get Getting Things Done on Amazon

#8 The Art of Happiness by The Dalai Lama

A great and complete guide to happiness in life by The Dalai Lama (← my review). It focusses on worldly factors like wealth and satisfaction as well as spiritual parts. → Get The Art of Happiness on Amazon

#7 Good To Great by Jim Collins

Another success book and especially one if you want to build a great business. I really enjoyed this book which is based on examining companies that made it from decent to really outstanding. → Get Good to Great on Amazon

#6 The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck

This is about “A New Psychology of Love, Traditional Values, and Spiritual Growth”. → Get The Road Less Traveled on Amazon

#5 Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl

Psychiatrist Viktor Frankl’s memoir has riveted generations of readers with its descriptions of life in Nazi death camps and its lessons for spiritual survival. → Get Man's Search for Meaning on Amazon

#4 How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

For more than sixty years the rock-solid, time-tested advice in this book has carried thousands of now famous people up the ladder of success in their business and personal lives. → Get How to Win Friends and Influence People on Amazon

The Top 3 Self Help Books:

#3 Think and Grow Rich

by Napoleon Hill

Napolean Hill’s classic book from 1930 is of course a book about money. But at it’s core it’s also a personal developmment book that can help you to develop a mindset of success and personal achievement.

Think and Grow Rich

What you will learn: While the title says that the goal is to become rich, it actually teaches a lot about what is now known as The Law of Attraction: thoughts become things. What and how you think continiously is what you draw into your life. The book is based on 500 interviews of super-successful people of that time.

Why I recommend it: Whether we like it or not, money is an important part in our life. It helps to get educated in that area and build a mindset so that money is not a limiting factor in our life. For me this book opened a lot of new thinking strategies, which not only helped in reaching my financial freedom.

Get Think and Grow Rich on Amazon (Kindle Edition, Audio Book)

#2 The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People

by Stephen R. Covey

“The 7 Habits” is an outstanding book to build positive habits that really improve your life. It is like a framework for success and for building character and integrity, with Stephen Covey being the exceptional personality who really walked his talk.

What you will learn: The book has two parts: private victory and public victory. In the first part, the private victory of the 7 Habits, you’ll learn the 3 habits to personal effectiveness: Proactivity, Begin with the end in mind, First things first.
In the second part, the public victory, you’ll learn the qualities to be effective with other people: Think win-win, Understanding others, Synergize. The last of the 7 habits is Personal Renewal. You also learn a lot about personal vision, goals, time-management and communication.

Why I recommend it: The 7 Habits are not just 7 random tips to improve your life, it is a complete system reduced to the essence of effectiveness. It comes from deep understanding and from the willingness to believe and seek the good in everyone and everything. It is a source to start with the man in the mirror and then to go on to build a better world.

Get The 7 Habits on Amazon (Kindle Edition, Audio Book)

#1 The Power of Now

by Eckhart Tolle

If I could recommend only one self help book, The Power of Now would be it. This is one of those life-changing books that can turn your world upside down.

The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment

What you will learn: The Power of Now is really a spiritual book. If you let it, it can connect you with yourself beyond your name, character, roles or body. You will learn to feel and trust your deeper sense of self again. Most importantly if helps you to be more alive and to center your consciousness in the present moment – The Now. The subtitle is “A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment” and that’s what is really all about. The first chapter teaches you that “You Are Not Your Mind”. And this is also the credo in order to really understand the book, which contains not just intellectual knowledge but also real transformational power.

Why I recommend it: The Power of Now had a huge positive impact on my life. While I was always drawn to spiritual books seeking for the truth of what is, I never glimpsed the actual experience of spirituality. Spiritual awakening, as Eckhart Tolle writes himself in the book, is not some super-human accomplishment but simple the felt oneness with being. Unfortunately our own ego and mind chatter gets in our way in order to really feel this oneness. The present moment, or The Now as Tolle calls it, is the entry point into this realization. Oprah Winfrey recommended the book as well.

If you haven’t read The Power of Now yet, start with the first chapter here on this site and dive into this life changing book from Eckhart Tolle. You can read my in-depth Review of The Power of Now here.

Get The Power of Now on Amazon (Kindle Edition, Audio Book)

Those were my 10 recommendations for self help books. I would love to hear in the comments which books you would recommend and which had a positive influence on your life!

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  • dauzon ypon

    August 16, 2012

    im glad and surprised viewing you on my wall sir myrko thum.i consider knowing you as one of my life blessngs,as one of my lifes coaches. im looking forward a better relationships w/ you on the net.god bless you always mr myr thum…

  • Myrko

    August 17, 2012

    dauzon, yes glad I could find you on Facebook. I’m looking forward to connecting on Facebook more in the future!

  • Jon

    August 18, 2012

    Great list of books, I’m looking into them now!

  • The Power of Now helped me to understand what 20 years of Asian Zen literature had been trying to tell me. Tolle speaks in a manner more easily understood by western people. It is changing my life.


  • Myrko

    August 20, 2012

    Spot on DSG, I think that’s a big positive factor of the book, the language is very simple and easily understood. Nothing more than needed.

  • Becky

    August 25, 2012

    I’m glad to see Steven Covey’s book, “Seven Habits,” on the list. I found this book to be extremely helpful to me in my life. Another one that has been helpful to me, not mentioned on this list, “A Country Where All Colors Are Sacred and Alive” by Geoffrey Oelsner. It has taught me that we can influence the natural world positively through attunement, meditation, prayer, intention, loving presence.

  • Myrko

    August 26, 2012

    Becky, yes I really love Covey’s book as well. Thanks for your addition, I’ll also look into Oelsner’s book.

  • Becky

    August 27, 2012

    Thanks Myrko. I hope you enjoy Oelsner’s book as much as I did.

  • Myrko

    August 27, 2012

    I’ll let you know :)

  • Mike Keller

    September 15, 2012

    Thank you Myrko for the great list. I would like to add two books to the list:

    Eckhart Tolle’s” A New Earth”. This book totally changed my life. My ego was in total control of my life. I now realize that “it is not about me”. I now enjoy helping others and encouraging them to be their best.

    I read “The Power of Now” after reading “A New Earth”.

    Jack Canfield’s “The power of focus”. This book is a great roadmap for anyone who is motivated to pursue their dreams.

  • Myrko

    September 15, 2012

    Thx Mike, A New Earth is a great book as well, yes. I didn’t put it on the list since I had The Power of Now already (ranked as #1) in it. But I would recommend A New Earth for sure as well!

  • yaz

    October 26, 2012

    One book that’s a must read, the most read book in the planet is: The Koran, check it out, its life changing

  • Suhel

    November 29, 2012

    Hi Myrko,

    I’ve just stumbled upon your blog and I’ve been reading it for few days now.

    I came across this post.

    The Irony is I’ve already read the top 4 but still I didnt get any benefits from them.

    The problem being that I’m not a reader. I usually read to finish the book. I highlight something that catches my attention but I never return back to it.

    I really want some tips (why not you write an article?) about how to read well and grasp things. Like how do you read? do you have a notebook while you read so that you can jot good points or something?

    Waiting for your reply :)


  • Myrko

    November 29, 2012

    Hm interesting perspective Suhel. I never thought about that problem before. What it really is is how to understand and internalize the points that strike a chord in you, isn’t it? You said you highlight points made in the books. That means that those points made an impression on you.

    I personally usually read to solve a problem or get an insight that gets me ahead in some way. This is the motivation I use to start reading and the points highlighted will help me. Then I WANT to use those points and test/integrate them in my own life. I know that I will profit from them in some way. So one thing is to check your motivation for reading the book.

    Then select the best parts and integrate them in whatever you do in your life, which is another key. Don’t just consume the knowledge passively, but question and compare what you read with your current knowledge and beliefs and see how the new information adds to it. Doing so, you work with the new knowledge and improve your mindset, while avoiding to add knowledge that did not pass your internal questioning (and therefore may not be right for you at the moment).

    Really good knowledge has the power to transform you, to make you grow, even if you only read it it will influence you. But you have to be open and really understand it of course, so it can become part of yourself.

    I also found that writing a review about the book helps a lot. I wrote reviews on The Power of Now, 7 Habits and The Art of Happiness and many more in my personal journal. It shows if you understood the key parts and helps you to reflect on it. This again internalizes the knowledge important for you. The saying “you only really have understood something if you can teach it someone else” reflects that idea.

    Thanks for the input, yes I really might write a post about that. Something like “How to read, understand and use new knowledge” …

  • Suhel

    November 29, 2012

    @Myrko: “one thing is to check your motivation for reading the book. Then select the best parts and integrate them in whatever you do in your life.”….

    Thanks mate, I never thought it that way. I’ll be waiting for your article. Thanks again for replying.. :)

  • Myrko

    November 29, 2012

    Ok, nice it made sense to you (I also just edited in one more paragraph into the comment above).

  • Suhel

    November 29, 2012

    @Myrko: *sighs* thats an awesome addition. ok before you add anything “again”, just log off and put this article about “how to read” in your TO-DO list ;)


    November 29, 2012

    I totally agree with you on the three last ones, and most of the others of those I’ve read. I also think that The monk that sold his ferrari in its simplicity also has some good points, or better called reminders since there’s nothing new, but a very easy and uplifting read. I also really like Sonia Choquettes Love yourself, live your spirit. It has a clue (self-love) to much in life. Without self-love (hard sometimes) we won’t get much further withourselves.
    I really like your web site! Thx for sharing!
    xo Caroline from Sweden

  • Myrko

    November 29, 2012

    Caroline from Sweden, thanks for your additions to the list. Yes, I think those are great ones, especially The Monk.

  • Myrko

    November 30, 2012
  • Rita Watts

    January 1, 2013

    I am really enjoying & appreciating your site! VERY interesting & VERY helpful! I’ve read most of the books & commend you on your choices, & I have to make mention of the BEST book I have ever read,..’As A Man Thinketh’ … sooooo short, too! Simple, yet, definitely mind-altering in a wonderful way! I am grateful also, for ‘The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari’, for IT, taught me HOW to focus, actually FOCUS, therefore, also ‘allowing’ me to choose & control my mind, rather than it always ‘controlling’ me!! (& I have been very ADHD all of my life,- that’s probably WHY I found it so Powerful,- I learned how to STOP my continuously speeding mind!! ) yayeeeeee! :)
    I LOVE your site!!
    Thank you!!!
    Cinderita :)

  • Myrko Thum

    January 2, 2013

    @Rita Watts, perfect! Yes, “As A Man Thinketh” is a favorite of mine too! Maybe it should be on this list as well!

    Thanks for a great and inspiring comment, Cinderita! :)

  • Sam

    March 6, 2013

    Hi Myrko,
    Bless you for helping people get out of the deep dark hole of depression by sharing your story!
    Love your site !
    I would like to add to the list : Zero Limits by Joe Vitale

  • Sam

    March 9, 2013

    And also THE SHADOW EFFECT by Debbie Ford, Deepak Chopra and Marianne Williamson.

  • Erald Kumrija

    April 23, 2013

    Hello Myrko

    Thank you for compiling this list. I find it really helpful. Another life-changing book I would recommend is the classic Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz.

    Keep up with good work

    Erald from Albania.

  • Michael

    May 26, 2013

    One definitely on my list is “Freedom from the Known” by J. Krishnamurti

  • Jor Barrie

    May 26, 2013

    Great list, Myrko!

    For me it’s definitely ‘The Power Of Now’, as it really helped me to live with ‘post traumatic stress disorder’ and even seriously reduce its effect on me. Very highly recommended, also because its easy to read and understand.


  • Myrko Thum

    May 27, 2013

    Yes Jor Barrie, TPON can help and open eyes on many levels. Not only spiritually, but also psychologically. Thanks for your insight here.

  • zafar

    May 29, 2013

    they are really seen good books. But they are on cost, i can’t buy them.would somebody shares with if posible. I will be thankful.

  • Boni Lonnsburry

    June 5, 2013

    Hi Myrko,

    LOVED this article and your website. I think the bottom line, as some of your readers have pointed out, is: “has my life changed, because of this book”. THOSE are powerful endorsements.

    I would be interested to see what you think of this book:

    It has helped many already, despite it’s not even a month old. Let me know if you’d like to read it. I’d love to send you a copy.


  • Yuval Perry

    November 1, 2013

    Definitely the Power Of Now, is one of the best, it really gave me inspiration to change my life

  • Jane Gagarin

    November 19, 2013

    Thank you for these recommendations. I will pick up a copy of The Power Of Now. I just finished reading Joy Chudacoff’s What’s Next?
    Certainly gets my top recommendation for this year and a strong contender for position in any list.


    December 22, 2013


  • Todd

    February 3, 2014

    I would read Napoleon Hill and his “Outwitting The Devil” as it was written a year after ‘Think And Grow Rich”
    Think And Grow Rich was the most influential book I have ever read until “Outwitting The Devil”3 Which was buried by his wife and family till well after his death and only released within the past few years. After you read it you will see why.
    Awesome Read!!!
    Your #1 and #2 recommendations are now on my list of books to read.Thanks


  • Bastiaan

    May 20, 2014

    Hello Myrko,

    Thanks for sharing this great selection of books. My personal favorite is the 7 habits. This book really changed my life and got me on the right track.

    Do you also read books of Anthony Robbins? I love reading his book Awaken the Giant within. Any way, a nice list and a nice site. I will keep following you!

    I also have a list of my favorite books (together with my girlfriend). You can check it out at:
    (sorry for the shameless link, but it’s a great selection of book). You’re also more than welcome to have a look around at our blog!

  • Kara

    June 20, 2014

    My number one spot (of the books from your list that I’ve read) would probably be a tie between “Think and Grow Rich” and “The 4 Hour Workweek.”

    My number two spot would be one that is not on your list yet (I think it came out after you wrote this post). It’s “Simply Successful” by Evan Dorren. It does a great job of tying together the concepts that most personal development books seem to agree are components of success – things like personal responsibility and accountability, understanding desire, building belief, taking action, and shaping our day to day environments. Would definitely recommend it.

    Thanks for the great list.

  • yatin

    July 27, 2014

    One of the best ever personal development books, for anybody looking to improve multiple aspects of his life, is and has always been the The Psycho-Cybernetics, (1960)by Dr. Maxwell Maltz. The 2001 updated edition, The New Psycho-cybernetics is highly worth reading too!!


    August 15, 2014

    I can’t stop thanking you Myrko . You are such an inspiration to me. This is my first year in a personal development and I am really learning a lot from you and I can see myself achieving my goals soon as long I follow you.
    You are really changing the world!!

  • Myrko Thum

    August 17, 2014

    Thanks a lot Etienne, this means a lot to me!

  • Ron Thibault

    August 19, 2014

    Hi Myrko, i have read the Secret, and Think and Grow Rich. Two great books that have already changed my life. I have just started on How To Win Friends and Influence People, but just having gotten an upper hand on a life long battle with depression, am looking for any extra info, knowledge, or tricks to keep focused and motivated. I appreciate any help!


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