“I went into the woods because I wanted to live deliberately. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life… to put to rout all that was not life; and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.” ~Henry David Thoreau in “Walden”, quoted by the Character Neil in the Movie “Dead Poets Society”

Seizing the day, living life fully, sucking out all the marrow of life – how marvelous this sounds …

Isn’t that the very thing we are here for – to experience life fully?

If we really look at it closely we can see what a strong and liberating message “Carpe Diem” holds: life is now and life will always only be now. The present moment is really all there ever is to experience everything. So it is to us to take this responsibility for ourselves and seize it fully.

Yet – it also entails the message not to waste a single moment. It means giving our all, being the best we could possibly be. It means dropping what still holds us back, dissolving the resistance to what we are and to what could be. It means to free ourselves from what we are not and to set free that what we really are. Let’s have a look together at how we can seize the day and make this happen …

1. Stop waiting. Start living.

“Every man dies. Not every man really lives.” ~Braveheart

Why getting ready to live instead of living? It may seem that there is this to do or that to achieve. Or it feels like there is something lacking: skill, money, resources, courage, self-esteem, preparation, readiness. There is a name for it: procrastination. Ultimately there is no need for more preparation for life. Procrastination is really the fear to start now , to start living.

But this is it! This is the life we are here for. We must realize that the time to live fully is now. Not tomorrow when we are more rested, not next month when we are through with the exams and not next year when the kids have left the house (or fill in anything suitable thing for your current situation).

It takes some courage to say completely “yes” to life. It is loosening the brakes and putting ourselves out there, for having fun and experiencing life now.

2. Make the time.

“You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it.” ~Charles Buxton

Seizing the day means seizing it in the moment . If we make a promise to ourselves to start tomorrow or next week there may be something entering our world then and we just have no time again. We have to make room actively for what is important to us. Time won’t present itself by saying here you have a little more for what you really need. “But I don’t have the time for what I really want because there is already so much! And at least not now!” This is the dangerous pattern that just leads nowhere, because this moment when we have time never comes. We have to make it. We have to break through this pattern and put first things first.

So how can we do this? If I plan my week I always put the most important things on top. This is first things first. Then I put the most important things into my schedule (I use iCal) first and everything else will have to organize around it. Every day has one major goal that must get the time it needs. In this way I personally made the room for the top priorities. I know for sure that it won’t necessarily work to put something important into a tight schedule. The most important thing gets the most time first. And it doesn’t matter what it is, it may be something private, something with another person or something in our professional life.

3. Say “Yes” to what is important (and “No” to what is not).

“Between stimulus and response, one has the freedom to choose. ” ~Stephen Covey

So if we put first things first we will have a burning “Yes” to what is important to us. And we will spend our time there in the first place. We focus on the important and on the other hand we remove the noise of what is not important. This means that by having a strong “Yes” to what matters to us, we can have a quality “No” to all the clutter, that may be urgent for others but not for us. We can say no to everything that is not important to us and this is a valuable lesson to learn. To become able to say “No” is the only real way to say “Yes”. Being effective is only possible then. It simplifies life and makes room for what matters.

4. Bring your best to the table.

“Winning is not everything, but the effort to win is.” – Zig Ziglar

In other words: Give 100 percent, give your all. By doing so, if you honestly can say you gave the best you can, you have seized the day.

A really good way that worked for me is to see if I am honestly proud of myself. If I am truly satisfied with my performance by my own standards, then this is the best I can bring to the table.

It also means not to settle for second best and especially not to settle anywhere below of what we are really capable of. If we have the highest expectations on ourselves then we are our greatest motivator ourselves.

5. Whatever you do: Be there fully.

“Life is a succession of moments. To live each one is to succeed.” ~Coreta Kent

Be present, live consciously. Wherever you are and whatever you do, be there as a full person with 100% of your attention. This is the best way to experience life fully and to get the most quality of life out of you. It is almost obvious – but yet we fail to achieve this too often. I know that I do.

If we are able to align ourselves with the flow of nature, life also automatically flows and supports for us. So to be there fully, to go into the zone means to be aligned with what is and not to struggle against it!

6. Show what you really feel. To the persons who are important to you.

“When we lose one we love, our bitterest tears are called forth by the memory of hours when we loved not enough.” ~Maurice Maeterlinck

Be with the people you love. And tell and show them what you love about them, don’t wait until it’s too late. This is especially true for parents or grandparents. I remember the song from a band called Mike and the Mechanics (Michael Rutherford of Genesis) who wrote the song “In the living years ” about his dad who has passed away. It goes with the line “Say it loud, say it clear. You could listen as well as you hear.”

7. Be a Go-Giver.

“We cannot waste time. We can only waste ourselves.” ~George M. Adams

Being a go-giver means not to wait for a first sign or even things coming to you, but to make the first step by yourself. Don’t wait for signs of gratification. Don’t expect anything in return. This will follow naturally. It also includes the secret to receiving, which is simply giving. If you want to get love, give love. If you want to get value (money), give value. If you want to get trust, show trust and be trustworthy.

8. Be courageously.

“As you grow older, you’ll find the only things you regret are the things you didn’t do.” ~Zachary Scott

“Just do it!” is a famous advertising slogan. What’s so great about it? It just hits the nail on the head. Stop thinking and wondering and holding you back, but just do it. Push yourself to do what you know is right, what you want and what benefits you and others. In other words replace fear with courage.

There is nothing sadder than missed opportunities. And all it takes is a kick in the butt to seize the day. Often it is just necessary to ask. Ask and you shall receive J So ask your future girlfriend or boyfriend for a date or just start a conversation. Ask for the job or promotion or what you can do for it. Take the initiative and bring something forward which is important to you. That is seizing the day.

A little hack that works for me if there is fear and courage, I just totally focus on what I want in that moment and what would be right to do and then just do it. You can’t really lose by doing the right thing. The worst that can happen is a learning experience to do it even better the next time.

9. Never stop dreaming. (But live your dream now.)

“Dream as if you’ll live forever. Live as if you’ll die today.” ~James Dean

Don’t let anyone tell you what you are, what you can do or can’t do. A dream is nothing else than an opportunity that has the potential to become true. So take your dream and plan ahead the the best you can: use goals and build your personal vision. See it as clearly as possible now and take it seriously.

And then live it now. Enjoy the process. The whole dream is a process but you will live every step fully in the present. The goal is the journey. That is important and it brings both worlds together: the dream and the now.

10. Be you. Be your authentic self.

“Live as you will wish to have lived when you are dying.” ~Christian Furchtegott Gellert

Don’t ever wear a mask but authentically be yourself and enjoy yourself. What good is it to pretend something that is not you? When ultimately the whole journey is about being you? It is the Inside-Out approach to life, which means to live from the inside and join all the 9 points above there and then become able to give your unique gift to yourself and the world.

Be truthful and real to yourself and to others. Then you open the door to discover yourself and ultimately realize yourself as whole and part of the whole.


Hi, I’m Myrko Thum and author of this site. I help entrepreneurs to create and sell highly profitable information products and scale up their business online. I also created several online training programs, among others Info Product Masterclass and Personal Breakthrough Academy. If you want to learn more click here to get started!


  1. Comment by R Veeramani

    R Veeramani Reply March 3, 2018 at 7:47 pm

    I am very appreciated the sentence of the words to present and future life in every humenbeing to follow, the life will be bright.

  2. Comment by Myrko Thum

    Myrko Thum Reply August 22, 2013 at 6:38 am

    @Alisha, I don’t believe there is nothing that you love to do. If that would be so, I would recommend to get more inspirations. Get different input. Try more things out. Connect and talk with people that could inspire you. Look for meaning in what you could do. Look for what you did when you were a child.

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  3. Comment by Alisha Thompson

    Alisha Thompson Reply August 22, 2013 at 1:17 am

    My comment is more of a question and it’s something i’ve been dealing with with myself for a long time- what do you do when you don’t know what you want? I’m all for seizing the day and going after your dream, but what if you don’t have a dream? I would take baby steps but I don’t know where I’m going so I don’t know which direction to step. (And don’t say forward) I want to live a life full of adventure but I just have no passion because there’s nothing that I love enough. It’s sad to see how dull my life has gotten and I don’t know how to change it. Any advice?

    Thanks in advance. Alisha

  4. Comment by Myrko

    Myrko Reply August 28, 2011 at 7:53 pm

    Well said Kaylee. Starting now gets us moving into the right direction, that alone is often the hardest part … :-)

  5. Comment by Kaylee

    Kaylee Reply August 27, 2011 at 10:52 pm

    Thanks for another great post!

    Not losing oneself in the mind is possible through being present – so I’d say you covered it, just indirectly. ;) I really appreciate this list…It reaffirms my attempt to stay in the now, to accept each moment as it comes…The now is all we will ever have – a great reason to get started now, as you said!

    I really loved that part, about getting started now…Not when we’re thinner, when we have more money, when we move out…NOW! The baby steps matter more than we might think.

  6. Comment by Waqaas

    Waqaas Reply December 3, 2009 at 2:35 am

    Thanks for the post Myrko, I found many of the parts very inspiring, so inspiring that I copied some down to my iPhone for a daily reminder :)

  7. Comment by Sensual photography

    Sensual photography Reply September 5, 2009 at 4:52 pm

    like it will say carpe on one wrist and diem on the other. my friend said it would probably be expensive.

  8. Comment by Myrko

    Myrko Reply June 29, 2009 at 5:39 pm

    Hi Geoff, right. Thank you. I updated with this info! :)

  9. Comment by Geoff

    Geoff Reply June 28, 2009 at 9:29 pm

    Uh, your opening quote is actually by Henry David Thoreau. It’s from Walden.

  10. Comment by matt

    matt Reply May 2, 2009 at 6:52 pm

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    JoanMary Reply October 17, 2008 at 6:14 am

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  12. Comment by Men of Words

    Men of Words Reply September 28, 2008 at 6:34 am

    Very inspiring article which reminds one of seizing the day and living life to the fullest when we usually find ourselves on auto-pilot, lost in life’s daily routine.

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  13. Comment by Myrko

    Myrko Reply September 19, 2008 at 12:25 am

    Jody, “The Opus” looks like a Manifestation Movie: From Vision to Plan to Performance. It is the process of personal creation / manifestation. Could be helpfful again, just like “The Secret”. Thanks for mentioning.

  14. Comment by Jody

    Jody Reply September 18, 2008 at 9:01 pm

    I am writing to recommend a brand new movie called THE OPUS that is bound to become just as popular as The Secret. I have no doubt that it will not be long until it appears on everywhere you look. Including the Oprah Winfrey show. This film is being called by many as The Next step to The Secret. I think it is even more than that. It is a practical, inspiration, no-nonsense approach to creating an incredible life legacy and reaching your greatest personal success. The film features many of the cast from The Secret returning. Joe Vitale, Jack Canfield, John Demarinti, Marci Shimoff, Morris “the Miracle Man” Goodman and others. The films official website is at http://www.TheOpusMovie.com and they have several very interesting clips that are worth watching where people are giving their beaming reviews that this show will be “bigger than The Secret.” You can also get copies of the film and sign up as an affiliate to help spread the word of this amazing film.

    The movie is so full of inspirational power. Here are just a few lines from the film:

    “Most people deceive themselves. Most people settle for something less than what they really want.” – Dr. Joe Vitale

    “The size of your thinking determines the size of your results, if you have vastly big thinking, you have vastly big results.” – Mark Victor Hansen

    “Your greatest moment can be measured by three things that make it great. What moment will have the longest lasting effect on your future? Which moment will carry the greatest future consequence? Which moment will have the farthest reaching impact on you and those around you? You greatest moment therefore becomes the moment that you DECIDE. Decision changes everything.” – Douglas Vermeeren

    “Your vitality in life is directly proportionate to the vividness of your vision.” Dr. John Demartini

    “The law of attraction just says that ANYTHING we think, feel, say and do we attract to us. So, we’re always creating through what we are putting out in our thoughts, our feelings, our words and our actions.” – Marci Shimoff

    “We will manifest into our lives what we expect.” – Dr. Joe Rubino

    “If you can’t get the big picture, start with the small stuff.” – Jack Canfield

  15. Comment by Evelyn Lim

    Evelyn Lim Reply September 11, 2008 at 3:37 am

    I like the idea of not waiting and starting immediately. Having seen how my life has changed by taking action, I have been urging people I talk to to take much needed changes quickly. A one day of living in misery and fear is another day of not living life fully.

    Evelyn Lim’s last blog post: My Abundance Mind Movie

  16. Comment by Myrko

    Myrko Reply September 11, 2008 at 12:45 am

    Brain, you know, I was constantely living for my vision earlier. One day I talked with my mentor and said “I am dissatisfied and frustrated all the time!”, and I realized how strange this is. Sure it makes sense to dealay an easy gratification now for a real gratification later, but this is not what this is about (self-discipline). For me it was about not realizing that I have to live life during the process of fulfilling a vision. This has changed, I try to do both now :)

  17. Comment by brianohio

    brianohio Reply September 11, 2008 at 12:30 am

    “Never stop dreaming. (But live your dream now.)” I found this to be very insightful. It seems as though I had always dreamed of the life I was “going to live”, but didn’t realize that I was wasting the only one I get. Dream and manifest your dreams now! Inspiring…

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  18. Comment by Myrko

    Myrko Reply September 11, 2008 at 12:12 am

    I would have added even more, especially about not loosing ourselves in the mind and about not taking everything too seriousely, but this would have made the post even larger and I wanted to focus on 10 points in the list. I hope I have chosen the right ones :)

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